Zak family

The house was torched with the family inside

Zak family

While hiding in the safe room, Itai and Etty Zak and their son Sagi (14) kept almost entirely silent for fear the terrorists would hear them. They had little communication with the rest of the family. After more than a day of disconnection, the tragic picture was revealed: the three were dead in the burnt-in-safe room.

The Zak family. On the right - Etty, Hadar, Sagi, Tomer and Itai. Parents and son found dead in burnt safe room

The house was torched with the family inside

Zak family

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06:30
12:45
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13:00
13:20
13:45
17:50

The sequence of events

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06:30

Volleys Towards the Gaza Envelope

Battles in the kibbutz

12:45

Last conversation with son, Hadar

~12:50

Fighting outside the home

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13:00

Last conversation with her daughter, Tomer

13:20

Electricity was cut off in the Kibbutz

13:45

“What about you guys Sagi??? “

Terrorists set fire to homes in kibbutz

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17:50

The rescue of families from the kibbutz begins

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When Red Color Alarms are heard in the kibbutz, Itai, Etty, 14-year-old Sagi, and the dog, Soka, enter the safe room

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While fighting is underway in the kibbutz, members of the Zak family hide in the safe room. The two older children - Hadar (24) and Tomer (22), who were staying outside the kibbutz - try to contact them, but without success - there is no cell phone reception in the safe room. Thus, the two try to obtain information from neighbors in the kibbutz

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A message that Tomer sent to her father, Itai
Tomer
Dad answer!!!
08:28 07/10/2023
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Messages that Tomer sent to his little brother Guy
Tomer
answer
08:33 07/10/2023
Tomer
Sagi
08:33 07/10/2023
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Itai and Etty come out of the protected space. They talk on the phone with the son, Hadar, and say the family stayed in the safe room all morning. The father added that there was an exchange of gunfire between the army and the terrorists near their home. Etty tries to reassure Hadar and tells him that they are okay and that his brother Sagi is sleeping in the safe room

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Members of the Zak family hear the echoes of the battle and the exchange of fire just outside their house and realize that army troops are already in the kibbutz

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Zack Family Home - 360 Photography
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Etty's talking to her daughter, Tomer. She tells her that rounds of gunfire are heard around but that the family members are fine and all together in the safe room. A few moments later, Etty points out that she needs to speak quietly so the terrorists do not hear her. Tomer suggests that you return to the safe room and that they talk later.

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The electricity and mobile networks in the kibbutz are cut out, and with them the communication of family members with their two older children. The two contacts military personnel they know, including those fighting in those moments in the kibbutz, send them a map with markings of the house and try to get information about their family

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The two older siblings try to call their family members - without success. It is estimated that during the same hours, the three members of the family were shot in their home by the terrorists. In the house later found shell casings of Kalashnikov bullets were found, and bullet holes in the walls of the safe room. Large blood stains were found on the bed, where Etty and Sagi were probably hugging, and on the floor at the entrance to the safe room, where Itai and the dog, Soka, were probably staying. In addition, a magnet was discovered on the body of a terrorist found in the kibbutz pool, taken from the family's refrigerator, with “X” markings on the photograph of the family members. Neighbors testified after the fact that terrorists, disguised as IDF soldiers, knocked on doors in the kibbutz and said in Hebrew that they had come to rescue residents. Since no signs of gunfire or break-in were found on the door of the safe room, it is believed that this was the case in the Zak family home

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Message sent by Tomer to Sagi
Tomer
What about you guys Sagi???
13:45 07/10/2023
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The terrorists set fire to buildings in the kibbutz, also in the row where the Zak family lives

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Buildings in kibbutz catch fire
Buildings in kibbutz catch fire Photo: Kathryn Grosswirth
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Zack family home, view from the inside
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Zack family home, view from the inside
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The Sooty Stained Walls in the Zack Family Home
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Hadar and Tomer contact kibbutz members and acquaintances, who ask after the family members. At the same time, rescue operations of families from the kibbutz begin and lists of names of those rescued, including from the neighborhood of the Zak family, are delivered. Their names do not appear on the lists. At the same time the family home also begins to go up in flames, after terrorists set it on fire earlier

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Correspondence between Tomer and his neighbor in the kibbutz
Tomer
??? KATRINE WHAT'S GOING ON,???
17:47 07/10/2023
Catrin
We're all fine. Have you heard anything from the parents? There is a fire cose to there
17:50 07/10/2023
Nectarine
close
17:50 07/10/2023
Tomer
No no no
17:50 07/10/2023
Tomer
can't reach them
17:50 07/10/2023

The Day After

8/10/23

Head Security coordinator updates Hadar and Tomer

20/10/23

Family members are laid to rest

28/3/24

Hadar and Tomer hold a commemorative event, near the destroyed family home

17/12/23

Tomer enlists in to reserve duty
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The night after the massacre, the Head Security coordinator, Roni, informs Hadar and Tomer that the house is completely burned down and their family members are not alive. The bodies of Etty and Sagi were found hugging in bed in the safe room. Itai's body was found on the safe room door along with Soka the dog

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Almost two weeks after the massacre, Itai, Etty, and Sagi are laid to rest in the cemetery in Sderot

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Friends and family are present at the event. In it, family stories are told, and friends play a song they have written in their memory. At the end of the event, everyone marches to the cemetery of Kibbutz Kissufim and plants four avocado trees

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      From the event of remembrance Photograph: Courtesy of the family
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      Tomer enlists for reserve duty in her original role as a combat Hummer operator and joins the Situation room in the Gaza Division.

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