Murdered With Her Caregiver in the Safe Room

Murdered With Her Caregiver in the Safe Room

Nira Ronen and Angie Aguirre

On Simchat Torah morning, 85-year-old Nira Ronen was at home with her caregiver, Angelyn (Angie) Aguirre. As Hamas’s assault began, Nira called her brother, saying she heard gunfire in the Kibbutz. In her last call to her daughters, she whispered, “Oh, I’m dying.” Terrorists soon stormed her house and murdered both women, side by side

Nira Ronen and Angie Aguirre

Murdered With Her Caregiver in the Safe Room

Nira Ronen and Angie Aguirre

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06:29
~06:45
~08:15
~08:45
09:05
~09:15

The sequence of events

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06:29

Red Alert Sirens

~06:45

The Safe Room Door Won’t Lock

~08:15

"Security Forces Will Arrive Soon"

~08:45

"Don't Worry — I'm Not Leaving You Yet"

09:05

The Last Call

~09:15

The Family Tries To Direct Security Forces To The House

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A Red Alert siren pierces the air in Kibbutz Kfar Aza. Eighty-five-year-old Nira Ronen wakes in her safe room, which doubles as her bedroom. Her caregiver, Angelyn (Angie) Aguirre, 32, a Filipino national, joins her inside the safe room. Angie had started caring for Nira only three weeks earlier, yet a close bond had already formed. The day before, several of Nira’s relatives visited. She sat with her grandson, Amit, on the porch, talking for a long while, as her daughter Nitzan photographed them—unaware it would be her mother’s final image

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Nira Ronen and Her Grandson Amit, a Photo Taken on October 6, 2023
Nira Ronen and Her Grandson Amit, a Photo Taken on October 6, 2023
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Angelyn (Angie) Aguirre
Angelyn (Angie) Aguirre
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The rocket barrages continue without pause as Nira calls her brother, Moti. She tells him there is “heavy shelling” and gunfire within the kibbutz. He instructs her to gather enough water for eight hours, ensure Angie joins her in the safe room, and lock the door behind them. Angie takes the phone, explaining that the safe room door won’t lock, and they’ll need to hold the handle shut. “That’s right,” he replies, “with all the strength you can.” “Then that’s what we’ll do,” Angie answers. Nira calls the rest of her family—including her four children, Chen, Tzlil, Nitzan, and Niv—remaining calm and even joking with them

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Nira speaks with her daughter, Nitzan, and jokes, "I found Dad’s walking cane here. If needed, I’ll have something to fight with." Minutes later, her grandson Omri calls. She tells him about the loud explosions and gunfire outside and admits she is frightened. Omri reassures her that security forces will arrive soon to rescue them. He ends the call to prepare for deployment to southern Israel as a reserve officer in an elite unit

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Nira’s son, Tzlil, texts Angie to understand their condition. She replies, “I’m scared.” He urges her, “Be strong.” Nira continues speaking with relatives, this time with her granddaughter, Maayan. Suddenly loud explosions erupt, yet she maintains a composed, even cheerful tone and tells Maayan, “Don’t worry — I’m not leaving you yet”

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Tzlil, Nira's Son, Texts Angie
Tzlil
Angie, how are you doing there?
08:31 07/10/2023
Angie
We've been sheltering in the safe room since 6:30 a.m. I'm scared...
08:36 07/10/2023
Tzlil
Stay strong. 💪 Luckily you're there with mom Sending you kisses😘😘
08:44 07/10/2023
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Nira speaks with her daughter, Chen, and they even joke. Her other daughter, Nitzan, joins the conference call. About ten minutes later, at 9:15, gunfire erupts extremely close—right outside the house. Nira's daughters hear their mother whisper in terror, “I’m dying.” They tell her to keep absolutely quiet. Nitzan guides her to breathe deeply. Silence falls on the line, and after thirty seconds, the call cuts off. Apparently, around this time, the terrorists break into the house, enter the safe room, and shoot Nira and Angie to death. The two are later found on Angie’s sofa bed in the safe room. The terrorists throw Nira’s phone into the toilet

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Angelyn Aguirre
Angelyn Aguirre
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After the call drops, family members attempt to direct security forces to Nira’s house, without success. They persist in calling Nira and Angie, but receive no response

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Tzlil, Nira's Son, Tries to Get a Sign of Life from Angie
Tzlil
How are you doing there?
09:44 07/10/2023
Tzlil
Angie, how are you? Could you call me back once you can? Thanks, Tzlil
11:44 07/10/2023

היום שאחרי

9.10.23

Nira and Angie Found in the Safe Room

22.10.23

Nira is Laid to Rest

26.10.23

Angie's Body Officially Identified

12.12.23

Note Left By Terrorists: "You Will Die"
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The family continues trying to learn what happened to Nira and Angie. A combatant who served in Kfar Aza, whom the family contacted, mistakenly tells them the two are not in the house, prompting relatives to fear they have been abducted. At 16:00, Kfar Aza’s community manager informs Nira’s daughter, Chen, that Nira and Angie have been found shot in Nira’s safe room

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From the "Grandma Command Center" Group Created by Nira's Family
Chen
Hold a minute, we've just received information on the worst scenario
16:05 07/10/2023
Chen
Orit says they have been found inside the house
16:05 07/10/2023
Niv
Chen?
16:06 07/10/2023
Moses
We've got to keep in mind this isn't an official announcement.
16:06 07/10/2023
Assaf
Is it certain?
16:06 07/10/2023
Nitzan
They've been found dead???
16:07 07/10/2023
Niv
Write something
16:08 07/10/2023
Moses
There's nothing to write, unfortunately.
16:08 07/10/2023
Tzlil
Mom and Angie were found dead in Mom's house. At least they weren't abducted to Gaza. I loved her very much.
16:17 07/10/2023
Tom
It's very sad.
16:21 07/10/2023
Assaf
I can't find the words
16:22 07/10/2023
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Following official identification, Nira is given a temporary burial at Kibbutz Eyal. As a mark of respect, members of the kibbutz line the road to the cemetery, many holding Israeli flags

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      Nira's Eldest Daughter, Chen Stein, Eulogizes Her Photo: Kan News
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        Nira's Younger Daughter, Nitzan Ronen, Eulogizes Her Photo: Kan News
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        Angie’s remains are identified and repatriated to the Philippines for burial

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        Angie's Grave in the Philippines Angie's Grave in the Philippines
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        In Nira’s house, tucked inside her diary, her son Tzlil finds a page on which the "Izz ad-Din al-Qassam Martyr Brigades" have scrawled: “We passed through here and defiled the Zionist occupiers. You will die; you will not remain here”

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        The Note The Terrorists Left In One Of Nira's Diaries The Note The Terrorists Left In One Of Nira's Diaries
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