Epstein Family

One family, three generations murdered

Epstein family

Three generations of one family lived in the kibbutz: Ayelet and Uri Epstein, their three children, Uri's parents and sister, Ayelet's sister and their families. During the attack, grandmother Bilha, uncle Ofir Libstein and son Nitzan, brother-in-law Uri Russo and son Netta, who jumped on a grenade to save his girlfriend, were murdered.

Bilha and Netta Epstein

Bilha Epstein and granddaughter Netta Epstein

One family, three generations murdered

Epstein family

Minute by Minute Circle
06:29
~07:10
~08:55
11:30
11:32
12:16
~13:45
~15:00
17:20
~23:00
+~09:00

The sequence of events

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06:29

Rocket barrage towards the kibbutz

~07:10

Ayelet finds the body of the grandmother, Bilha

~08:55

Uri and his nephew find the body of Ofir Libstein

11:30

Netta's last post: “Dad, they are here”

11:32

Neta jumps on the grenade and is killed

12:16

Ayelet corresponds with Irene: "Is Netta breathing?"

~13:45

Ayelet sets off in the direction of Netta and Irene

~15:00

Ayelet writes a diary from the safe room: “We are being massacred”

17:20

Shooting at the house where Ayelet and Amos are staying

~23:00

Shooting at the house

+~09:00

IDF soldiers rescue the family

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The couple Ayelet and Uri Epstein wake up to the sirens, along with their 12-year-old daughter Alma, and they quickly run to the safe room. Their other daughter, Rona (19) is on a trip to the north of the country, and their son Netta (22) is with his partner Irene Shavit, in their apartment in the “Young Generation” neighborhood of the kibbutz.

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Amos Epstein, Uri's father, who lives not far from them on the kibbutz, calls Uri and tells him that Bilha, Uri's mother, has fallen on the porch of their house and is unable to get up and reach the safe room. Ayelet runs to Amos and Bilha's home and finds her dead with a gunshot wound. Ayelet joins Amos, her father in law, in the safe room, informs him that Bilha has been murdered, and calls the family members to inform them of the murder. Uri and Ayelet call the emergency security officials of the kibbutz and senior army officers, but there is no answer at that time. Minutes before that, Uri Russo, deputy commander of Kfar Aza's security squad and the husband of Ayelet's sister, has left his home to defend the kibbutz. He and Tal Elon, the commander of the security squad, take guns from the armory and run to the area where terrorists have been reported to have been seen. In an encounter with a large force of terrorists, both are shot dead.

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    Ayelet Epstein recounts the moment she found Bilha with no signs of life Media: From the “Evening News,” Kan 11
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    Uri Russo
    Uri Russo
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    Uri receives a call from Aviv Libstein (22), the son of his sister Vered, and of Ofir Libstein, head of the Sha'ar Hanegev Regional Council, who have left earlier to fight with the security squad. Aviv tells Uri that he has pinged his father's phone near Uri's house. A few minutes later, Aviv calls again and tells Uri that he can see the body of a terrorist outside Uri's house. The two decide to run together to the body and take the weapon from him, so that Aviv can protect his family in the safe room. The two leave their homes - which are next door to each other - Aviv takes the weapon and as he makes his way back, Uri asks him to check whether there is a name on the weapon. Aviv sees that the weapon says “Ofir Libstein”. They return to the body together, and discover that it is Ofir, who was killed by the terrorists.

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    Ofir Libstein
    Ofir Libstein
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    Correspondence between Aviv Libstein and Uri Epstein
    Aviv
    Have you seen Dad?
    08:40 07/10/2023
    Uri
    No
    08:41 07/10/2023
    Aviv
    Are you at home?
    08:41 07/10/2023
    Aviv
    Can you look out the window? He is supposed to be outside your house
    08:43 07/10/2023
    Aviv
    According to the phone ping
    08:43 07/10/2023
    Aviv
    ?
    08:44 07/10/2023
    Uri
    I can't see from the window
    08:45 07/10/2023
    Aviv
    08:47 07/10/2023
    Aviv
    what do you say
    08:50 07/10/2023
    Aviv
    ?
    08:50 07/10/2023
    Aviv
    What should we do?
    08:50 07/10/2023
    Uri
    Don't go outside yet right now It appears that there are still terrorists in the kibbutz
    08:51 07/10/2023
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    Correspondence between Aviv and Uri, after finding Ofir's body
    Aviv
    We are in the safe room
    09:14 07/10/2023
    Uri
    Stay strong
    09:15 07/10/2023
    Aviv
    Uri
    09:20 07/10/2023
    Aviv
    Have you taken him?
    09:20 07/10/2023
    Aviv
    So that they won't kidnap him
    09:20 07/10/2023
    Uri
    I did not take him but I reported to the army and the council
    09:20 07/10/2023
    Aviv
    OK
    09:20 07/10/2023
    Uri
    They will come and get him. We are in the middle of a complex event, the army is finding it difficult to control the situation and there are infiltrations in a number of villages, so everything is moving slowly
    09:21 07/10/2023
    Aviv
    OK
    09:21 07/10/2023
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      Vered Libstein, Ofir's wife, tells of the moments when her son identified his father Media: "Zman Emet”, Kan 11
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        Ido Shamriz, a member of the security squad, tells of his encounter with Ofir Libstein at the armory From: "Zman Emet”, Kan 11
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        Uri corresponds with his son Netta, who is at his home in the “Young Generation” neighborhood, along with his partner, Irene Shavit. For about two hours, the “Young Generation” neighborhood has been under the second wave of terrorist infiltration into the kibbutz, during which dozens of terrorists infiltrated through a hole in the gate that accesses the neighborhood. The terrorists go from house to house, kidnapping, shooting, burning, and looting each of the apartments in the neighborhood. Netta and Irene hear the voices in the neighborhood, until they hear the shattering of the window in their house and the terrorists enter. Netta writes his last message to his father: “Dad, they are here”

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        Correspondence between Neta and his father Uri
        Netta
        We can still hear voices but a little further away
        11:28 07/10/2023
        Uri
        Do not open the door even if you are told that it is the police or the security squad
        11:28 07/10/2023
        Netta
        Yes we heard about that
        11:29 07/10/2023
        Netta
        They're here
        11:30 07/10/2023
        Uri
        The IDF wants to attack from the air Do not leave the safe room
        11:30 07/10/2023
        Netta
        The window was shattered, we heard
        11:30 07/10/2023
        Netta
        Dad, they are here
        11:30 07/10/2023
        Uri
        Be quiet
        11:30 07/10/2023
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          Ayelet reads the correspondence with her son, Netta Media: “Listen to a Story,” KAN 11
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            Ayelet describes the pain she felt when she received Netta's last messages From: “Listen to a Story,” KAN 11
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            The terrorists infiltrate the home of Netta and Irene, open the door to the safe room and throw grenades. The third grenade is thrown at Irene. Netta shouts "grenade" and jumps on the grenade to save Irene's life. While he falls on the grenade, the terrorists fire a burst of shots at him. The fourth grenade causes a fire in the safe room and the terrorists leave the house. Irene sends a message to Uri, Netta's father: “He's dead.” Uri continues to support Irene by correspondence between them and she manages to extinguish the fire that broke out in the safe room. She hides behind Netta's body until she is later rescued by IDF forces.

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            Correspondence between Uri and Irene, after Netta was murdered
            Irene
            Uriiiiii
            11:36 07/10/2023
            Irene
            He's dead
            11:36 07/10/2023
            Irene
            And a fire has broken out
            11:36 07/10/2023
            Uri
            Where is the fire
            11:36 07/10/2023
            Irene
            In the safe room
            11:37 07/10/2023
            Irene
            They threw a grenade
            11:37 07/10/2023
            Irene
            They are outside of the apartment
            11:37 07/10/2023
            Irene
            I can actually hear them
            11:38 07/10/2023
            Irene
            There is thick smoke
            11:38 07/10/2023
            Irene
            They're at the door
            11:38 07/10/2023
            Uri
            Try to extinguish the fire inside the room with whatever you can find Protect yourself, our beloved
            11:38 07/10/2023
            Irene
            They're right outside here
            11:40 07/10/2023
            Irene
            I put out the fire
            11:47 07/10/2023
            Irene
            They are at the doot
            11:47 07/10/2023
            Irene
            Door
            11:47 07/10/2023
            Uri
            Good Go back to the safe room
            11:47 07/10/2023
            Irene
            I'm under the bed
            11:48 07/10/2023
            Uri
            Good Protect yourself, our beloved.
            11:48 07/10/2023
            Uri
            Don't open the door and don't answer unless you hear the call "13 13". This is the code for our forces
            12:04 07/10/2023
            Irene
            OK
            12:11 07/10/2023
            Uri
            We love you, Irene. Hang in there
            12:12 07/10/2023
            Irene
            They're still outside here
            12:12 07/10/2023
            Irene
            When will the IDF arrive?
            12:12 07/10/2023
            Uri
            I am constantly reporting and calling for help in any way possible The army is already in the kibbutz, but there are terrorists in other places
            12:13 07/10/2023
            Irene
            OK
            12:13 07/10/2023
            Uri
            In the meantime hide and defend We have no choice but to wait
            12:14 07/10/2023
            Irene
            OK
            12:21 07/10/2023
            Irene
            Any news?
            12:49 07/10/2023
            Irene
            OK
            13:05 07/10/2023
            Uri
            No. Hold tight and wait for the forces
            00:58 08/10/2023
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              Ayelet describes the moments when the terrorists reached Netta and Irene's safe room Media: “Evening News,” KAN 11
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              Neta Epstein
              Neta Epstein
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              Ayelet and Uri Epstein correspond from different safe rooms
              Uri
              sweetheart Stay with my dad in the safe room Confirm that you received
              11:52 07/10/2023
              Ayelet
              👍
              11:53 07/10/2023
              Ayelet
              What about Netta
              11:53 07/10/2023
              Uri
              Don't know Irene extinguished the fire. and hides under the bed
              11:53 07/10/2023
              Uri
              You don't open the door and don't answer unless you hear the exclamations 13 13 This is the code for our forces
              12:04 07/10/2023
              Ayelet
              Yes obviously
              12:04 07/10/2023
              Ayelet
              But what to we do about Netta
              12:04 07/10/2023
              Uri
              I have reported every possible place meanwhile praying with all might
              12:05 07/10/2023
              Ayelet
              I feel like my heart has been ripped out of place It's so painful
              13:09 07/10/2023
              Uri
              My beautiful and my beloved We are together for each other We will strengthen ourselves
              13:11 07/10/2023
              Ayelet
              ❤️
              13:12 07/10/2023
              Uri
              ❤️
              13:13 07/10/2023
              Ayelet
              What's about Nitzan?
              13:18 07/10/2023
              Uri
              wounded It is not clear what his condition is
              13:33 07/10/2023
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              Ayelet corresponded with Irene Shavit, Netta's partner, in an attempt to understand what Netta's condition is. “Is he breathing? “, she asks, and is informed of his death. A few minutes earlier, in the "Young Generation" neighborhood, a few houses from the home of Netta and Irene, terrorists have infiltrated the home of Nitzan Libstein, Netta's cousin. Around 12:15 p.m., he is shot in the leg while gripping the door handle of the safe room, preventing the terrorists from entering. A few hours later, after his phone runs out of battery, Nitzan Libstein dies of blood loss.

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              Nitzan Libstein
              Nitzan Libstein
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                Ayelet talks about her correspondence with Irene From: “Shme'u Sipur”, Kan 11
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                Correspondence throughout the morning between Uri and a senior officer
                Uri
                Shalom Uri Epstein from Kfar Aza. There are terrorists in the kibbutz here in many places There are quite a few dead and injured. The Ravshatz and his deputy are not available and do not answer. Some of the Tzachi Team [the community emergency and resilience team] was killed and others don't answer (there are probably terrorists next to them). Give me liaisons for reporting terrorists, wounded and dead
                08:03 07/10/2023
                Uri
                Ofir Libstein has been killed He is the head of the council and my brother-in-law
                09:22 07/10/2023
                Uri
                They are going from house to house and shoot people Reinforcement of the forces at Kfar Aza is vital People are simply being slaughtered
                12:21 07/10/2023
                Uri
                We need the help of additional forces They are slaughtering people here from house to house throughout the kibbutz
                12:22 07/10/2023
                (Senior Officer)
                Uri we are doing everything to bring more forces. Hang in there
                13:00 07/10/2023
                Uri
                My son was killed and my mother was killed Now Ofir Libstein's son is seriously wounded
                13:00 07/10/2023
                Uri
                I am relying on you But the situation is arduous
                13:01 07/10/2023
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                Ayelet leaves the house in order to reach the home of Netta and Irene. She misses a military vehicle that passes by her, but continues and runs towards the “Young Generation” neighborhood, where soldiers are still fighting the terrorists. The soldiers are surprised to see Ayelet and shout at her that she should return to her home immediately. Ayelet shouts back at the soldiers and asks them to come to Netta's apartment and rescue Irene. A few moments later, Ayelet realizes that this is an impossible task and she returns to the safe room at Amos' house.

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                  Ayelet tells about the encounter with the soldiers Media: “Listen to a Story”, Kan 11
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                  Ayelet and Amos stay together in the safe room without electricity and without cell phone reception for about eight hours, in pain and crying. Ayelet records in her diary what she is going through during these hours. In part, she writes: “We are being massacred.” At the same time, fierce fighting is underway outside their home. Ayelet described hearing “a long whistling sound and then a deafening boom.” At the same time, Uri's phone runs out of battery and he exits the safe room to fetch a portable charger and discovers that his house is filled with thick smoke. He looks out the window and sees that the house of the neighbors, the Itamari family, is completely burnt down. In retrospect, it will be revealed that members of the Itamari family were murdered in their home.

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                    Ayelet reading from the safe room diary that she wrote, at the funeral of her son, Netta
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                      Ayelet talks about the safe room diary that she wrote Media: "Listen to a Story”, Kan 11
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                      Ayelet and Amos hear shouting in Arabic in the gazebo outside their house and massive gunfire on the house. Ayelet and Amos hold hands and are silent, so that they will not be heard. They sit in silence until the noise stops and the terrorists leave.

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                        Ayelet, at Netta's funeral, reading, from the safe room diary, an excerpt about the moments when the terrorists attacked the house
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                        During the night, the terrorists shoot at Amos' house and break windows. Ayelet and Amos hide in silence in the safe room. All through the night and into the morning hours, sounds of fierce fighting are heard non-stop.

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                        IDF soldiers rescue Amos and Ayelet and they are transported to the shop of the gas station at the entrance to the kibbutz. Ayelet shouts at the soldiers to rescue Uri and Alma who remained in the safe room of their home. About two hours later Vered, Uri's sister, reports to him that she and her family have been rescued, and that a military vehicle is waiting at a certain point in the kibbutz. Uri decides to go out with Alma in the direction of the vehicle. As in the background the fighting continues, Uri and Alma run towards the point and find the armored vehicle and the soldiers. As the two board the vehicle, Uri asks the soldiers to extract more families along with them. He insists on reaching more homes, calling families waiting to be rescued and leading the soldiers to them. This is how the Efrat and Halperin families are rescued, until there is no room left in the armored vehicle and everyone rides together to the gas station.

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                          Ayelet tells of the first moments after the rescue Media: “Listen to a Story”, Kan 11

                          The Day After

                          8.10.2023

                          The Epstein family moves in with relatives at Moshav Matan

                          17.10.2023

                          Netta Epstein is laid to rest in the cemetery at Kibbutz Einat

                          18.10.2023

                          Ofir Libstein, head of the Sha'ar Hanegev Regional Council, is laid to rest in the cemetery in Even Yehuda

                          20.10.2023

                          Nitzan Libstein is laid to rest next to his father Ofir, in the cemetery at Even Yehuda

                          20.10.2023

                          Bilha Epstein is laid to rest at the cemetery at Kibbutz Einat
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                          Ofir Libstein Ofir Libstein
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                          Bilha Epstein Bilha Epstein
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