Idit Tavor and Shlomi Dabah

"God Help Us, Where Are They?" — The Couple in Hiding

Idit Tavor and Shlomi Dabah

On the morning of October 7, as the attack began, Idit Tavor and Shlomi Dabah drank coffee at their home in Kibbutz Sufa. After 30 minutes in the safe room, they tried to flee, but the kibbutz gate didn't opens. They hid for hours on a hilltop as their family remained unaware of their fate

Idit Tavor and Shlomi Dabah

"God Help Us, Where Are They?" — The Couple in Hiding

Idit Tavor and Shlomi Dabah

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05:45
06:30
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~07:15
~16:00
~17:30
~18:30
~19:30
~22:40

The sequence of events

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05:45

Idit and Shlomi Drive to Their House

06:30

Red Alert Sirens in Sufa

~07:00

Attempt to Leave the Kibbutz Under Fire

~07:15

Idit and Shlomi Hide Among Heaps of Debris

~16:00

Helicopters Land at the Nearby Outpost; Idit Waves to Them

~17:30

"God Help Us, Where Are They"

~18:30

Idit and Shlomi Emerge from Hiding

~19:30

Idit and Shlomi Leave the Kibbutz

~22:40

"Mom Is Here with Me, Mom Is Here with Me"

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Idit Tavor, 59, and Shlomi Dabah, 66, rise early on Saturday morning in a temporary home where they’re staying at Kibbutz Sufa. They pack a coffee kit and head to their new house in the kibbutz’s, which is under renovation. A year earlier, after more than two decades together, they chose to leave behind urban life for a new start in Sufa. Shlomi waits in the car as Idit gets ready. When she steps outside, he notices she’s forgotten her phone. “Who’s going to call at six in the morning?” she sais. And thus, with neither of them carrying a phone, they start the car and set off

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Idit Describes How They Left Without Their Mobile Phones
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From: “Nowhere Else - Sufa,” Kan Bet
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Idit and Shlomi arrive at their new home in Kibbutz Sufa’s expansion neighborhood and sit down to enjoy a cup of coffee. When Red Alert sirens sound, they quickly take shelter in the safe room

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Shlomi and Idit hear gunfire and make the decision to leave the safe room and escape. They get into their car and head toward the kibbutz’s back gate, only to realize they can’t open it without their phones. As they drive, the radio crackles with reports of terrorists infiltrating the Gaza border region

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Idit Describes the Beginning of the Rocket Attack
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From: “Nowhere Else,” Kan Bet
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Idit and Shlomi drive toward the kibbutz’s agricultural zone, an area scattered with abandoned containers, greenhouses, and piles of farming debris. Near the entrance gate they stop. Shlomi steps out and notices Ofir Erez’s car just beyond the gate. Minutes earlier, Ofir had been murdered in his vehicle, but from inside the kibbutz, Shlomi can’t see him. He returns to the car, and they continue driving. Reaching the agricultural area, they climb a small hill and hide for hours among heaps of discarded waste. They have no phones or food—only a half-empty small bottle of water

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Ofir Erez
Ofir Erez
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After hours in hiding, with gunfire echoing in the background, Idit and Shlomi hear helicopters landing at the nearby Sufa military outpost, bringing in troops. At the same time, a combat helicopter opens fire toward the Gaza border fence. Idit waves her arms, hoping one of the helicopters will see them

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Idit Describes the Moments Spent in Hiding
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From: “Nowhere Else,” Kan Bet
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A military unit, in coordination with the kibbutz’s emergency response team, completes a sweep of the area, including both of Idit and Shlomi’s homes—the temporary residence and the house under renovation. Following the search, the family is informed that the couple’s phones were found inside their home, but the car is gone—and so are Idit and Shlomi. At this point, Idit’s children are convinced their mother and Shlomi have been kidnapped along with their vehicle and taken into Gaza

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Idit's Children Try to Locate Her
Yaara
Hi, we got the following update
16:26 07/10/2023
Yaara
Israeli forces are sweeping the Kibbutz.
16:27 07/10/2023
Bar
But the IDF already arrived earlier, so what do you mean by "sweeping"?
16:27 07/10/2023
Jonathan
So probably just now
16:27 07/10/2023
Honeysuckle
That means they've taken control of the situation and they're now moving between the houses to see that everyone is ok.
16:28 07/10/2023
Bar
Okay.
16:28 07/10/2023
Yaara
Aryeh: We’ve finished the search. The house was locked. They weren’t there. Their car is missing.
16:29 07/10/2023
Lilach
God help us
17:30 07/10/2023
Lilach
Where are they?
17:30 07/10/2023
Lilach
What about the police? They said they'll locate their phones
17:30 07/10/2023
Yaara
They could perhaps locate their car first
17:30 07/10/2023
Bar
What do you mean they are not at home?
17:30 07/10/2023
Lilach
Did they search in their other house where they're renovating?
17:30 07/10/2023
Yaara
Yes they have completed scans throughout the kibbutz
17:31 07/10/2023
Yaara
I spoke with the civilian operations center that was set up to help locate missing persons. They’re trying to assist in locating them, but they don’t have any information at the moment.
17:37 07/10/2023
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After spotting IDF soldiers landing at the nearby outpost, Idit and Shlomi decide to emerge from hiding. They get into their car and drive toward the residential area. As they pass the kibbutz’s entrance gate, they see a group of soldiers and approach them to request evacuation. The soldiers decline, explaining that the area outside the kibbutz remains too dangerous. Shlomi and Idit then take cover behind a shipping container near the gate

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Shlomi notices the kibbutz gate has opened and urges Idit to get in the car. They follow a military vehicle and head north on Route 232 toward Rishon LeZion, where Idit’s children live. As they drive, the magnitude of the attack begins to unfold before them—bodies lie along the roadside, and vehicles burn in flames. Farther along, they encounter a police vehicle. The officers instruct them to leave the area immediately and make their way to Highway 6

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Idit Describes the Drive Through the Highway
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From: “Nowhere Else,” Kan Bet
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Idit and Shlomi arrive at the home of Bar, Idith’s daughter, in Rishon LeZion. Idit rings the intercom and says, “Bar, it’s Mom.” Bar, overcome with emotion, immediately contacts her siblings, who had been certain that Idit and Shlomi had either been murdered or abducted

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Bar Informs Her Brothers That Their Mother Is with Her
Bar
Mom is here with me
22:39 07/10/2023
Bar
She's all right
22:39 07/10/2023
Bar
Mom is here with me
22:39 07/10/2023
bar
She rang the doorbell
22:39 07/10/2023
Lilach
What??
22:39 07/10/2023
Lilach
???
22:39 07/10/2023
Lilach
Where's Mom????
22:39 07/10/2023
Lilach
Bar
22:39 07/10/2023
Yaara
I can't believe it, what's going on??? Keep us updated
22:50 07/10/2023
Bar
She will call you right away
22:51 07/10/2023
Lilach
Mom is alright!
22:51 07/10/2023
Lilach
I talked to her
22:51 07/10/2023
Lilach
Everyone, please recite the Gomel blessing now.
22:51 07/10/2023
Lilach
everyone
22:51 07/10/2023
Lilach
No matter if you're a believer or not
22:51 07/10/2023

The Day After

12/10/2023

Shlomi and Idit Arrive in Eilat

January 2024

Relocating to Ramat Gan
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Shlomi and Idit arrive in Eilat and reunite with fellow kibbutz members, who had feared they were dead after repeated attempts to contact them throughout the day failed

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The couple relocates to Ramat Gan, joining several other residents of Sufa who have also settled there

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