Laban family

The surviving baby on the windowsill

The Laban family

Kai was just ten days old on Saturday, October 7. His parents, Amy and Uriel, hid with him in the safe room along with his grandmother and her dog Lemon. When the house started catching fire, they put him on the windowsill so he could breathe. That's what saved him.

Kai, the surviving baby on the windowsill. Photograph: The Laban Family

The surviving baby on the windowsill

The Laban family

Minute by Minute Circle
06:30
~07:30
08:40
08:57
09:17
09:29
09:48
10:43
12:30
17:00
~20:00

The sequence of events

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06:30

Going to the safe room

~07:30

Terrorist infiltration in the kibbutz

08:40

Terrorists break into house

08:57

The house is on fire

09:17

“My baby son is choking”

09:29

“They're out here”

09:48

Shots outside the window

10:43

“We need rescue”

12:30

The army arrives in the settlement

Soldiers rescue the family

17:00

Family on the way to Soroka Hospital

~20:00

Kai hospitalized for two days

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Amy is feeding Kai when the alarms sound. She runs with him to the safe room along with her mother, Deborah, and on the way they manage to take Lemon the dog, too. Uriel is sleeping in the safe room. Two cats and another dog do not make it in time to enter the sheltered room.

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Family members hear the sounds of gunfire and talk in Arabic. They report it in the WhatsApp group.

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    Terrorists enter Nirim
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    Correspondence from the WhatsApp group
    Amy
    Is everything all right with you?
    06:44 07/10/2023
    Corinne
    Here yes, what about you
    07:30 07/10/2023
    Amy
    Scary
    07:30 07/10/2023
    Corinne
    Did you have any sirens?
    07:30 07/10/2023
    Amy
    Alarms and shooting
    07:31 07/10/2023
    Mum
    Yes, but worse was the ground shooting
    07:31 07/10/2023
    Corinne
    Oish, stay in the safe room. Don't go out
    07:34 07/10/2023
    Amy
    obviously As soon as they give the order to leave, we go to Eilat
    07:34 07/10/2023
    Corinne
    😮
    07:34 07/10/2023
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    Three terrorists enter the house and the electricity falls. They start breaking things and try to open the safe room door. Uriel and Amy hold the handle up and prevent entry. The terrorists give up, but before they leave they start burning down the house.

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    Correspondence from the WhatsApp group of the settlement
    Hadas
    There is no army in the kibbutz. There's nothing here to keep us safe.
    08:45 07/10/2023
    Ariel
    There's electricity here
    08:45 07/10/2023
    Shai
    Here too No electricity
    08:45 07/10/2023
    Rotem
    We have electricity
    08:45 07/10/2023
    Hadas
    No electricity
    08:45 07/10/2023
    Uriel
    They're infiltrating my house pleaseahhhhh
    08:45 07/10/2023
    Rotem
    Make sure you're locked
    08:46 07/10/2023
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    The safe room door is broken and it doesn't close until the end. Uriel sees a fire in the house, and smoke begins to penetrate through the door opening. He sends a voice message asking for help, with the crying of baby Kai in the background.

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    Fire breaks out at Uriel and Amy's house
    Fire breaks out at Uriel and Amy's house
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    Uriel's first voice message about the house being on fire
    00:00
    00:00
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    The safe room is filled with smoke. Amy and Uriel realize they need help. They continue to correspond with the kibbutz's WhatsApp group and call the fire department. The fire call center, unprepared to deal with such a scenario, suggest to put Kai on the windowsill so he can breathe, and stay with the family on the line for two hours.

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    The safe room fills with smoke
    The safe room fills with smoke
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    Correspondence from Nirim's WhatsApp group
    Amy
    Help. The house is on fire
    09:09 07/10/2023
    Baral
    Try to escape through the windows
    09:09 07/10/2023
    Uriel
    We are suffocating
    09:13 07/10/2023
    Uriel
    My son the baby is choking Heeeeeelllllp My house is on firrrreeee
    09:14 07/10/2023
    Laurel
    Get out
    09:14 07/10/2023
    Uriel
    We're traaapped
    09:14 07/10/2023
    Avishag
    What is this? Where is the army? Where? Shay talk to someone
    09:17 07/10/2023
    Hadas
    There is no armmmyyyy!! There is none!!
    09:17 07/10/2023
    Idit
    There is no one
    09:17 07/10/2023
    Barak
    Uriel and Amy what about you
    09:19 07/10/2023
    Uriel
    Not goo
    09:20 07/10/2023
    Uriel
    good
    09:20 07/10/2023
    Uriel
    Barely breathing
    09:20 07/10/2023
    Idit
    Call 102 They answered and I reported maybe it will help us
    09:21 07/10/2023
    Avishag
    Barel wrote in the group of the extinguishers
    09:23 07/10/2023
    Avishag
    Urgentttttttt
    09:23 07/10/2023
    Idit
    We were abandoned 😢
    09:23 07/10/2023
    Avishag
    Uriel Put a wet cloth to all of you in your mouth
    09:23 07/10/2023
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    The neighbors suggest Amy and Uriel go out the window, but they realize that they are trapped since the terrorists are just outside their safe room.

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    Correspondence from the WhatsApp group of the locality
    Amy
    Heeeellllp
    09:29 07/10/2023
    Amy
    They're out here
    09:30 07/10/2023
    Amy
    There's smok
    09:30 07/10/2023
    Amy
    smoke
    09:30 07/10/2023
    Amy
    Our son is suffocating
    09:30 07/10/2023
    Uriel
    urgent
    09:30 07/10/2023
    Rotem
    Can you from home put out the fire? Maybe open taps?
    09:31 07/10/2023
    Amy
    help
    09:34 07/10/2023
    Avishag
    Amy, why don't you guys get out of the safe room? From the window
    09:34 07/10/2023
    Avishag
    There is no one to help us, we are left alone
    09:34 07/10/2023
    Michal
    It's a hard insight into our future 😢
    09:34 07/10/2023
    Amy
    They're outside the safe room we can't go out the window
    09:38 07/10/2023
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    Outside the house, gunshots are heard. Kai cries occasionally, and his grandmother covers his mouth with her hand, so that the terrorists do not hear the sounds of crying.

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    Correspondence from Nirim's WhatsApp group
    Uriel
    We are suffocating Most Urgenttttt The child does not breathe
    09:48 07/10/2023
    Avishag
    Uriel get out!!!!!
    09:48 07/10/2023
    Rotem
    Get out and that's it
    09:48 07/10/2023
    Amy
    Suffocatinnngng
    09:54 07/10/2023
    Talia
    Uriel What's going on?
    09:54 07/10/2023
    Ariel
    Anyone know if the army is in a kibbutz?
    09:54 07/10/2023
    Ariel
    Uriel, what's up with you?
    10:04 07/10/2023
    Uriel
    Bad!!! I don't know if we can go out or not.
    10:04 07/10/2023
    Osnat
    Let us know that you got out of there and everything is fine
    10:04 07/10/2023
    Uriel
    Shooting outside the window
    10:16 07/10/2023
    Ariel
    For your information, 12 News has now reported that there are terrorists in Nirim
    10:16 07/10/2023
    Uriel
    They are shooting on us.
    10:25 07/10/2023
    Hagit
    Shooting at our place, too.
    10:25 07/10/2023
    Avishag
    Shooting again. How is this whole shit not over already???
    10:25 07/10/2023
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    About three and a half hours from the start of the events, the Laban family is having trouble breathing in safe room. Like the fire department suggested, they put Kai on and off on the windowsill and hope for a miracle. At the same time, the adults alternate between them: one holds the handle, and others inhale long breaths through the window of the safe room.

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    Correspondence from Nirim's WhatsApp group
    Rotem
    What about Uriel and Amy, did someone get to them?
    10:43 07/10/2023
    Michal
    What about Shay and Kati?
    10:43 07/10/2023
    Avishag
    Shay hasn't answered me
    10:43 07/10/2023
    Uriel
    They did not come here
    10:43 07/10/2023
    Rotem
    And what about the fire? With the smoke?
    10:43 07/10/2023
    Uriel
    Bad
    10:44 07/10/2023
    Uriel
    They're outside the window
    10:44 07/10/2023
    Uriel
    Arabs
    10:44 07/10/2023
    Avishag
    Do you see them?
    10:44 07/10/2023
    Uriel
    I don't dare to look outside I hear Arabic
    10:44 07/10/2023
    Amy
    Heeellllpppp
    10:57 07/10/2023
    Uriel
    We need rescue Can't breathe
    11:11 07/10/2023
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    Uriel receives news that army troops have entered Nirim.

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    Uriel sees IDF fighters outside the window and waves to them. They help the family members get out through the safe room window - first taking out baby Kai, followed by Uriel, Deborah and finally Amy and the dog Lemon.

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    Amy holding Kai
    Amy holding Kai
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    The dog Lemon
    The dog Lemon
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      The Laban family's moment of rescue
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      Two soldiers drive the Laban family to Soroka Hospital after no available ambulance was found. The two cats and the dog that were left out of the safe room did not survive.

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      Due to the heavy load, Deborah is hospitalized in the hospital hallway while Amy and Kai are hospitalized in the pediatric ward until their release two days later. Uriel suffers from eye injuries, a sharp cough and nausea.

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      Kai in the hospital
      Kai in the hospital
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      Amy is admitted to hospital due to smoke inhalation
      Amy is admitted to hospital due to smoke inhalation

      The Day After

      9.10.23

      Kai and Amy are released from the hospital

      A few days later

      The Nirim community moves to a hotel in Eilat

      Four Months After

      Moving to a temporary residence in Beersheba
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      After two days in the hospital - Amy and Kai are released.

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      Immediately after the events, the Laban family moves to stay with relatives in Modi'in. After a few days they move to a hotel in Eilat together with the community of Nirim.

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      Four months after October 7 - the Laban family moves into temporary residence in Beersheba.

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