Rai family

“Daddy doesn't let go off the door handle”

Rai family

Doreen and Bijay Rai hid in the safe room with their three children for 11 hours until the rescue. Terrorists broke into their house and shot in all directions, trying to open the safe room door, with Bijay fighting them on the other side, not letting go off the handle. The two family dogs were kidnapped to Gaza, but returned home on their own.

Bijay Rai wrestles with the terrorists over the handle of the safe room

“Daddy doesn't let go off the door handle”

Rai family

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06:30
~06:40
07:05
07:15
09:51
~09:55
~11:00
~11:30
~17:40

The sequence of events

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06:30

Red Color alarm in Nir Oz

~06:40

Doreen tries to get the dogs into the safe room

07:05

Doreen: “Sounds like there's gunshots here”

07:15

The parents realize the kibbutz is under attack

09:51

“Shit, they're gonna kill us. I hope the kids will be okay.”

~09:55

Bijay fights with the terrorists on the door of the safe room

~11:00

The terrorists try to kidnap the dogs into Gaza

~11:30

Doreen to the children: “We're protecting you”

~17:40

After 11 hours: rescue arrives

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When the alarms start, Doreen and Bijay Rai run to the safe room with their three children - Maya (11), Nea (9) and Ram (7). The house shakes from explosions and they barely manage to close the door. Doreen reassures the children and assures them: “I'll arrange clothes for us and as soon as we can leave we will drive away to the family.” The family's two dogs, Thika and Choti, are on the balcony.

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The Rai family
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Correspondence in the local application
Security Notices
The situation is under review Please enter a protected space!
06:35 07/10/2023
Notifications of the Local emergency team
Eshkol Regional Council Announcement* 7.10.22 | 6:45 Dear Residents Good Morning and Shabbat Shalom In the last few minutes, heavy barrages of gunfire have been fired at the Council's settlements and other settlements throughout the country. Stay within sheltered spaces or the most sheltered available until further notice. When the details become clear we will update the information.
06:57 07/10/2023
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Doreen goes out onto the balcony and tries to get the dogs into the safe room without success. She will then go out again to get food for the children and check that the dogs are OK. In those minutes, the infiltration of terrorists into Kibbutz Nir Oz begins.

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    Moments of the infiltration of the first Hamas squad into Nir Oz Photo: Security cameras at the main gate
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    Doreen walks out of the safe room once more and hears the sounds of close gunfire. She notices that the window net in the living room has shifted slightly, she assumes that someone has peered into the house and quickly returns to the sheltered room. On the family WhatsApp group she writes: 'Sounds like there was gunfire here on houses outside and also more residents heard it, I thought I imagined'.

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    Rai Family WhatsApp Group
    Reut
    Is everyone all right?
    06:47 07/10/2023
    Efrat
    We are in Ness Harim. Quiet here. What about you?
    07:01 07/10/2023
    Reut
    There were a few alarms here, but it's all in a brace...
    07:02 07/10/2023
    Efrat
    Do you have a sheltered space?
    07:02 07/10/2023
    Doreen
    Sounds like there are gunshots here on houses outside. Also other residents heard it I thought I imagined
    07:05 07/10/2023
    Efrat
    Take care of yourselves
    07:06 07/10/2023
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    In the local application, they update that there are terrorists in the clinic area of the kibbutz and residents are asked to lock the houses and not open to anyone. Doreen unfolds a blanket between the bed and the cupboard for the three children and covers them with a duvet.

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    Nir Oz Mothers WhatsApp Group
    Mother 1
    They are here
    09:14 07/10/2023
    Mother 2
    Here too
    09:14 07/10/2023
    Doreen
    I'm afraid they tried to break into the house. I went out to get something and looked at the window in the living room for a second and saw that the window was open The shutter was closed almost to the end and so was the net and I saw for a second that the net was open and the shutter was up
    09:14 07/10/2023
    Mother 3
    Where is the army
    09:15 07/10/2023
    Mother 3
    They are here Please
    09:18 07/10/2023
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    The terrorists break into the family home. They shoot at the door and windows, riot and break objects. In the family group, Doreen writes: “They shout at us Allahu Akbar, love you all.” She also records a voice message, in English, so the children don't understand: “Shit, I think they're going to kill us.” In the second recording she whispers in English: “We don't want to die, I hope at least the children will be OK. If they go inside, we're dead, I'm sure. I'm sorry I worried you.”

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    Rai Family WhatsApp Group
    Doreen
    They shout Allahu Akbar at us
    09:51 07/10/2023
    Doreen
    Must have killed the dogs
    09:51 07/10/2023
    Doreen
    They're breaking the house
    09:51 07/10/2023
    Doreen
    Hope they don't come to the safe room please
    09:51 07/10/2023
    Doreen
    We love you all
    09:51 07/10/2023
    Efrat
    Put heavy furniture on the safe room door and take care of yourself
    09:51 07/10/2023
    Doreen
    They also shoot at the safe room window
    09:52 07/10/2023
    Carnauer
    Love you
    09:54 07/10/2023
    Efrat
    Get under the beds. Hope it ends soon. Praying for you
    09:54 07/10/2023
    Nadav
    I updated 100 hope that it will do something
    09:56 07/10/2023
    Doreen
    09:56 07/10/2023
    Doreen
    Help
    09:56 07/10/2023
    Efrat
    Dorini, we love you.
    09:57 07/10/2023
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    Nir Oz Mothers WhatsApp Group
    Doreen
    Yoo They're shooting at the safe room window
    09:46 07/10/2023
    Mother 1
    I'm dying of fear, I am alone with them in the safe room
    09:47 07/10/2023
    Mother 2
    Please! They are burning down our house.
    09:47 07/10/2023
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    “Shit, they're going to kill us”: A recording Doreen sent to her family in English
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    “Love you all. We don't want to die”: Another recording Doreen sent to her family in English
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    The terrorists shout “Allahu Akbar” in the hallway of the house. They try to open the door of the safe room and almost succeed, with Bijay on the other side holding the door tightly and not letting go. Throughout the day, terrorists entering the house try to open the safe room door four times, and Bijay manages to hold it closed.

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    Bijay holds the door of the safe room
    Bijay holds the door of the safe room
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    The terrorists kidnap the two dogs from the house. In a documentation, crowds of terrorists and looters heading back towards the fence in the late morning are seen, and one of them is holding Thika. Choti, a bigger dog, is dragged behind them on a motorcycle.

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      A terrorist holds Thika on his hands on the way to Gaza From a record of terrorists returning to Gaza with hostages and a lot of equipment
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      Throughout the day, terrorists enter and leave the Rai family home unhindered at least six times, shooting, shouting and vandalizing property. At one point a group of looters arrives and takes everything within reach. Doreen tries to reassure the children: “We're protecting you. Look, Daddy's not leaving the door.”

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      After hiding in the safe room for 11 hours, including ten hours during which Bijay held the door, a group of fighters from Shayetet 13 arrives at the house. One of the girls begs the parents not to opem the door because she is sure these are terrorists who have returned to kill them. After a conversation with the fighters through the door, the parents become convinced and open. One of the soldiers reassures the girl and apologizes that they scared her. When the Rai family walks out of the messed up house, there is no trace of the dogs anywhere. They spend the night in the sheltered kindergarten in the Kibbutz.

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        Video taken by Doreen Rai during the rescue
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          Video taken by Doreen Rai during the rescue

          The Day After

          08.10.2023 Morning

          Bijay participates in identification of bodies in kibbutz

          08.10.2023 Noon

          Doreen finds the dogs at home

          08.10.2023 afternoon

          The Rai family evacuates to Eilat
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          Along with other members of the kibbutz, Bijay is asked to assist and move around with the soldiers in the area to collect and identify the bodies of residents, including friends and acquaintances.

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          Doreen returns to their destroyed home hoping to find the dogs there. Choti and Thika hear her voice and run to her, with a rope tied around Choti's neck. Only later does it become clear to the family that the terrorists tried to kidnap the dogs to Gaza, and that they apparently managed to escape and return alone to the kibbutz.

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          Nea cuddled up with Choti and Thika after they were found in their home Nea cuddled up with Choti and Thika after they were found in their home
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          Together with the other residents of Nir Oz who have not yet been evacuated, the Rai family is evacuated from the kibbutz to a hotel in Eilat.

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            Residents in Eilat greet the evacuees from Nir Oz as the bus arrives in the city
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